My wife and I hardly acknowledge Valentines day. Like most guys, even though you found the love of your life, V-Day is a comercial, high presure pain in the butt. My wife get's annoyed at the price gouging. ($80 for a doz roses? $35 for chocolate? $6 for a card? and resturants? Forget it. they are a zoo.)
We celebrated one V-day when we first met, and since then she has been very outpsoken about not doing anything special. I protested (I think it was "oblilgitory that I did at least protest even if I to thought it was a sham..."But honey! I WANT to show how much I love you.....). Nope. She hates it.
Yesterday was actually a nice day. We each took a snow day, slept in. had coffee and bagels in the late morning. relaxed all day and then took care of the shoveling while she cooked a nice dinner.
We lit a fire in the upstairs living room, and pulled the two new chairs we just bought up close to fire place, listened to some music and had a bottle of wine. I just picked up Harry Conik Jr's ne CD NOLA and really enjoyed it. Nice background music. We just talked and watched the fire. We had forgotten it was valentines day, when I reminded her. "Happy Valentine's day" I said.
"oh yea. I forgot." she smiled.
Then I wandered out to the tub for a long overdue soak in the snowy night and ease my back from the shoveling.
Life is good.
Very good.
