No matter one's feeling towards T.O., it is sad that he reportedly tried to commit suicide.
In the past two years my son has had two of his friends, in their early 20's, commit suicide using a shotgun. You feel for their families and then reflect back as to whether there was something you, as an adult and knowing these kids, could have done. I imagine T.O. 'friend' has the same concern.
Hopefully, T.O. gets the help he needs- the hell with his football career.