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General => General info Somewhat hot tub related => Topic started by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 10:20:27 am

Title: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 10:20:27 am
 ;D

I'm starting this thread here instead of the main board in hope that there will be no backlash from the prude.  This is actually a serious post, but if you don't have the stomach for it please don't continue reading.  With that disclaimer... here goes.

I'm just curious if ownership has made a noticable difference in other peoples sex lives.  I don't know if DH is more relaxed, less stressed, having less pain, or if hot water just helps him get in the mood, but whatever it is I'm not complaining and I hope it doesn't ever wear off.  Had I known this was an additional benefit I would have prioritized a hot tub years ago.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: East_TX_Spa on February 10, 2006, 10:33:55 am
I guess so, if you count going from non-existent to once-in-a-blue-moon an improvement.  I just consider it as services rendered in order to get out and go do fun stuff.  But, I'm old and crotchety nowadays and probably haven't got long to live anyway so I need to preserve my essence at all costs from the conniving ways of the women.

Terminator
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: hamrhed on February 10, 2006, 11:03:39 am

"Essence Preservation"

Now that cracks me up  ;D  ;D
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Spatech_tuo on February 10, 2006, 11:06:51 am
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I just consider it as services rendered in order to get out and go do fun stuff.  


So [glb]you're[/glb] the hold-out? I've got a couple friends who complain that their wives are after them and I just roll my eyes.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 11:31:13 am
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So [glb]you're[/glb] the hold-out? I've got a couple friends who complain that their wives are after them and I just roll my eyes.


I didn't know you and my husband were friends.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: East_TX_Spa on February 10, 2006, 12:46:15 pm
I believe she meant you my friend.  All of the rings on my motor are worn and my seals are leaking. :(

Terminator
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Spatech_tuo on February 10, 2006, 12:48:23 pm
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I didn't know you and my husband were friends.


Do you mean Term or myself?

My motor is always idling waiting to shift it into drive, a 1963 model, built to last. Full tank/half tank, day/night, good mood/bad mood, tired/energetic, happy/sad... it doesn't matter. And I don't run it on alcohol any longer so it's full power till the tank runs dry. For those who use the hybrids with battery back-up, not such a bad idea.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Spatech_tuo on February 10, 2006, 12:48:54 pm
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I believe she meant you my friend.  All of the rings on my motor are worn and my seals are leaking. :(

Terminator


Blown seal?
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: East_TX_Spa on February 10, 2006, 01:04:03 pm
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Blown seal?


Nope, not even the seal gets action... :(

Terminator
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 01:23:14 pm
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My motor is always idling waiting to shift it into drive, a 1963 model, built to last. Full tank/half tank, day/night, good mood/bad mood, tired/energetic, happy/sad... it doesn't matter. And I don't run it on alcohol any longer so it's full power till the tank runs dry. For those who use the hybrids with battery back-up, not such a bad idea.


Hmm, that sounds like me... except I'm a newer model.
Hybrids that could be a good addition.   :)
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: NE-Phil on February 10, 2006, 01:35:42 pm
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...All of the rings on my motor are worn and my seals are leaking. :(

Terminator

This should fix it. (http://froogle.google.com/froogle_image?q=http://shop.com.edgesuite.net/ccimg.catalogcity.com/220000/228600/228690/Products/24257741.jpg&size=4&dhm=fe6acba3&hl=en) ::)

Phil
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 01:57:21 pm
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I guess so, if you count going from non-existent to once-in-a-blue-moon an improvement.


We went from non-exsistant (once week) to once-in-a-blue-moon (every other day) here.  I would call it massive improvement, but daily blue moons would be much better.   ;D
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Post by: Spatech_tuo on February 10, 2006, 02:12:34 pm
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once-in-a-blue-moon (every other day) here.  


You sure are deprived!!
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 02:14:30 pm
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You sure are deprived!!


I know!  A girl should be able to get it on demand.

I'm actually not complaining about the blue moon, compared to nonexistant it is rather nice.
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Post by: Spatech_tuo on February 10, 2006, 02:37:07 pm
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I know!  A girl should be able to get it on demand.



All I ask is that wife wife be flexible about the issue, like this lady!

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/liquidlady.html
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: wmccall on February 10, 2006, 03:48:14 pm
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;D

I'm starting this thread here instead of the main board in hope that there will be no backlash from the prude..


Yout talking to me?

(http://www.robertdeniro.com/robert%20picture/a8.jpg)
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: spahappy on February 10, 2006, 05:07:13 pm
Yeah, who is the prude?
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: East_TX_Spa on February 10, 2006, 05:09:54 pm
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Yeah, who is the prude?


I believe she was referring to me, once again. :-[

I'll just pack my bags and go to Australia and leave ya'll to your wickedness....

Do you know the way to Waloomoloo?

G'day

Termidundee
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: East_TX_Spa on February 10, 2006, 05:11:54 pm
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This should fix it. (http://froogle.google.com/froogle_image?q=http://shop.com.edgesuite.net/ccimg.catalogcity.com/220000/228600/228690/Products/24257741.jpg&size=4&dhm=fe6acba3&hl=en) ::)

Phil

Got em packed.  I have the thong sized ones to fit under my bathing suit.

Termidundee
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 05:22:55 pm
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Yeah, who is the prude?


I was not singling out one idividual.  I just know that some people have complained in the past about sexual content on the site.  So I wanted to issue a full warning and disclosure as not to offend anyone.

Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Vinny on February 10, 2006, 07:37:46 pm
Brooke,

You never specified with or without a partner! ;D
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Bonibelle on February 10, 2006, 08:27:28 pm
Gosh Brooke, this sounds very analytical to me. Like,  you could compile data and prove that one of the benefits of a hot tub is that it increases libido!
  I thought you might be interested in this very scientific study that I received today because you may be able to find some correlation to your hypothesis:
A study conducted by UCLA's Department of Psychiatry has revealed that the kind of face a woman finds attractive on a man can differ depending on where she is in her menstrual cycle.  For example: If she is ovulating, she is attraced to men with rugged and masculine features.  However, if she is menstruating or menopausal, she tends to be more attracted to a man with scissors lodged in his temple and duct tape over his mouth while he is on fire.  I wonder how these results would change if the guy on fire was in a hot tub? ;D
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 10, 2006, 08:39:40 pm
I think I was a participant in that study Bonibelle.   ;D

Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: HotTubMan on February 11, 2006, 03:55:29 pm
WOW
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: luvmytub on February 11, 2006, 09:00:27 pm
First of all, I have to say OMG!! because I watched the liquid lady video.  Holy Crap!  

Now that I have that out of the way...don't know about the sex life affect yet, haven't had the tub long enough and DH only got to use it one day before he left town on a fishing trip.  Now he is home, and in deep depression because the motor on our beloved bass boat is TOAST!  And he is trying to quit smoking.  Bad, bad time for motor to croak.  DH babies that motor, does the maintenance by the book...and it is thrashed.  Locked down completely while he was fishing on Lake Amistad.  He took it to Amarillo yesterday to a repairman and he confirmed...it is bad...really, really bad.  However, we used the tub the night he got home, and the next night, and even in the midst of his deep dark depression... ;D.  And I was out of town last night.  I'm hoping this hot tub makes him feel as good as it's making me feel.  Especially since he is 14 yrs older than me.  I will be 40 in March, he will be 54 in April.  I'm rather like you Brooke, my motor is usually running faster than his ;).  I had a total hysterectomy last April, and the thing I was most worried about was the effect that might have on that part of my marriage.  So far, no negative effect at all from that!  To me that is an important part of our relationship and I'd like to keep it that way.  Ok, I have probably shared too much information and should quit typing and just go back to drinking my glass of wine and lurking ;D.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Snowbird on February 14, 2006, 07:00:51 am
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I'm just curious if ownership has made a noticable difference in other peoples sex lives.  

One question....
25 responses....
24 jokes....
No real answers....
Typical.

Wouldn't have it any other way.
;)

My vote for the best response.... ;D

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Brooke,

You never specified with or without a partner! ;D

Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: wmccall on February 14, 2006, 10:07:50 am
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;D

I'm just curious if ownership has made a noticable difference in other peoples sex lives. .



My owning a spa has not affected other people's sex lives as far as I can tell.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Snowbird on February 14, 2006, 11:01:20 am
Yo!  wmccall,

What is that cat doing?

Has your hot tub affected his sex life?  ::)
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: cburk0677 on February 14, 2006, 11:37:48 am
I have heard that women enjoy using hottub jets to massage more than their backs ;D

Just a theory but I am willing to bet that a hottub will improve most peoples sex lives just because of the relaxation it provides. I know with my wife that stress is a major mood killer.

Cburk
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 14, 2006, 12:55:29 pm
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My owning a spa has not affected other people's sex lives as far as I can tell.


I went to public school and a state college... I apologize if my wording was not clear.  I will restate the question.

Has owning a hot tub improved your sex life?
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 14, 2006, 12:56:49 pm
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Brooke,

You never specified with or without a partner! ;D


Are you asking if my question was for with or without a partner or if my own increase was with or without a partner?
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Brookenstein on February 14, 2006, 12:58:29 pm
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I have heard that women enjoy using hottub jets to massage more than their backs ;D

Cburk


I will neither confirm nor deny your theory.   ;D
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: cburk0677 on February 14, 2006, 01:50:56 pm
Well I hope it is a confirmable theory. Saw an ad for one of those sybian machines and thought hey maybe a hottub woud be killing two birds with one stone, lol!!

Cburk
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: drewstar on February 14, 2006, 02:21:21 pm
I'll bite.

Yes. My sex life has improved dramatically since getting the hot tub.  It's amazing.  It's like we are teenagers again.  We have wild  sex parties in the tub all the time.

The only problem is making sure everyhting gets cleaned up before my wife  gets home.   ::)
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Vinny on February 14, 2006, 04:32:34 pm
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Are you asking if my question was for with or without a partner or if my own increase was with or without a partner?


My question was for with or without a partner ... I wasn't going to get THAT personal with you! And if I it was the other that would be pretty nasty on my part.


And as far as the tub's jets, I actually had a salesman "joke" about women loving the center volcano jet ... of course it was in fromt of my then 14 YO son.
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Tatooed_Lady on February 15, 2006, 02:52:23 pm
I'm hoping that the tub helps us to relax more so we can be more romantic...of course, my husband's idea of romance is to call me on the phone and say "so am I gonna get lucky tonight?" *sigh*

On the OTHER side of that coin, though...I really don't want the tub to spice up my 14 year old son's sex life....he can keep his solo flights behind closed doors, NOT in the tub!!
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Tatooed_Lady on February 18, 2006, 10:05:19 pm
oh boy...I killed the topic, I'm sorry.....

Can we now go to "Owning a hot tub and your NEIGHBOR'S sex life" or "Neighbor owns a hot tub, your sex life"?   ;D
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: hotubinn on February 21, 2006, 11:58:05 pm
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Gosh Brooke, this sounds very analytical to me. Like,  you could compile data and prove that one of the benefits of a hot tub is that it increases libido! ;D


I wish it had.  My wife won't go anywhere near the hot tub.  She swears that she hears that funky 70's guitar music everytime I open the cover! ::)
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: Tman122 on February 22, 2006, 05:23:42 am
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Got em packed.  I have the thong sized ones to fit under my bathing suit.

Termidundee



I was cruisin along reading and laughing them I read this and got a little sick. Thong sized depends...uggggg

I spose I better not laugh soon it will be me.

ST lets trade wifes for a while, mine needs some service. Ooops that sounded bad!!
Title: Re: Owning a hot tub and your sex life...
Post by: cappykat on March 03, 2006, 08:53:39 am
Well...we're old and neither of us can get it up so hot water isn't going to help.   HAAAAAA!!!!  LOL!!!!!
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Post by: DaisyBug08016 on March 04, 2006, 12:39:39 pm
Well - I have read that hot tubs increase circulation - that should be good, right?

I only have the tub a few days - let me get back to ya - but I SURE AS HELL HHOPE SO!