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How much of it is that you'll miss the adrenaline rush, vs you'll miss feeling like what you do makes a big difference for others? If part of your happiness at work stems from the feeling that this current job is more "real" and that the other is not as rewarding, then perhaps you can make a difference in other ways. At-risk school groups? other community outreach? You have a perspective on life and the city that others could benefit from.
Bosco:I have only one real regret in life. I put work ahead of my family for many years. My physical and mental health suffered due to the stress.My advice is to put your family above all else. Enjoy your kids and cherish your wife.
and your advice for Bosco is.......start selling hot tubs to old folks? :-?
Oh by the way, what is vested???