It's very subjective- no spa can deliver what everyone wants. Some may just love getting "blasted", others like you, don't really like it. With me it varies. Sometimes I just sit in the water without any pumps running.
Some like bubblers, others can't see the point. Some insist on 104 degree water, some can't stand it that high and like it a few degrees cooler. Others yet want to go above 104.
None of it is wrong- for yourself.