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I read somewhere here that SD made it so that only the dealer closest to you could sell to you; dunno if that's true or how they would enforce that....
2. She even had the gall to state that "it's a good thing you didn't order a spa a few weeks since who knows what would have happened to your money". That sounds illegal, since I would assume deposit funds are placed in escrow and are not available for 'fleeing the country' with.