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Finally he admits to me he was inside getting a beer and his wife and a friend's wife (YEAH!) were out in the tub! GRRRRRRRRR!
"and it's only the giving.......that makes you ....what you are........"
this thread gives me so much comfort...knowing that we are going away soon, and leaving our baby (the tub, obviously!) in the oh not so capable hands of my young and dangerously wild living sister in law!!