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In your situation, I would worry only about getting my pH down to an acceptable range. Your high pH can cause scaling and suspension of your calcium, especially with calcium level you have. Use your muriatic acid once a day and test to slowly bring your pH down as Steve mentioned. If you use a Taylor kit, you can test for acid demand and get a corresponding amount of muriatic acid to bring the level to where you want it. Don't worry about your TA right now. It will follow your pH down. As Nitro mentioned you probably want your TA on the low side to help keep your pH down anyways. Skip the alk increaser, stick with muriatic acid and get that pH into range.
In your situation, I would worry only about getting my pH down to an acceptable range. Your high pH can cause scaling and suspension of your calcium, especially with calcium level you have... As Nitro mentioned you probably want your TA on the low side to help keep your pH down anyways. Skip the alk increaser, stick with muriatic acid and get that pH into range.
tony and Nitro's advice is sound. I would also suggest ignoring hardness until you can maintain a good pH. I would also suggest using a scale/stain product until you have everything balanced. As tony mentioned, high TA or pH can cause calcium precipitating out. The scale products are supposed to keep it in solution.While muriatic acid (HCl) maybe an appropriate tool for this, remember that it is a very caustic chemical. Make sure you have a good procedure in place, and use safety tools like gloves, goggles, etc.
1. It would be in error to "ignore hardness". Rather, it is ESSENTIAL to get the hardness right BEFORE adjusting any "fine tuning". 2. Using Baking Soda is also an error (as it increases both PH AND Alk at the same time). Rather, go to a Home Depot and/or Lowes and get PH up (Sodium Bi-Carbonate). That will allow you the ability to raise PH without also raising Alk (mistakenly).3. Muratic Acid is good but it is also the counter to the Baking Soda so as others have said, the OP is simply "chasing his tail" when he alternates these ESPECIALLY if his hardness levels aren't correct.4. At this point, I don't really know what the OP has done to their water (Total dissolved solids are now VERY likely quite high which would also contribute to difficulty stablizing their water conditioning).5. So.... Dump and re-start. Get Hardness levels (Calcium right) FIRST and completely IGNORE ANY PH/ALK levels.6. Bring PH up using Soda Ash (Sodium Bi-Carbonate) slowly (over a day or two.easy-peezy